Micro-Cults: Intimate Governance as a Mechanism of Allegiance, Aurora Mizutani's thought-provoking research
When Love Governs: Rethinking Power Inside Intimate Relationships
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We are comfortable talking about power in politics. We are comfortable talking about authority in organizations. We are far less comfortable asking whether governance operates inside our closest relationships.
The default vocabulary for relational strain is psychological: communication problems, attachment styles, and emotional dysfunction. That language captures experience, but it often misses structure.
What if some relationships function not simply as emotional partnerships - but as small governance systems?
In Micro-Cults: Intimate Governance as a Mechanism of Allegiance, I introduce the concept of the micro-cult to describe intimate systems in which belonging becomes regulated through three mechanisms: loyalty extraction, epistemic control, and exit-cost inflation.
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This does not mean families are cults. It does not mean intense love is pathological. It means that under certain conditions, affection can become moral obligation, interpretation can become centralized, and leaving can become predictably punitive.
The shift is subtle. It rarely begins with dramatic control. It begins with loyalty tests. With interpretive closure. With small but repeated penalties for boundary-setting.
Over time, dissent becomes unsafe. Compliance becomes anticipatory. And calm may replace conflict - not because equality exists, but because governance has stabilized.
The point is not to sensationalize private life. It is to recognize that governance is not confined to institutions. Authority can operate wherever rules are produced, enforced, and legitimized - including in the most ordinary spaces.
Understanding this possibility does not erode intimacy. It protects it.
Because love without autonomy is not partnership.
It is allegiance.
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